Welcome to the forum.
Make sure that
The host has less or the same expansions
The host created a game with the "Level Range" set to 85
The host created a game with a difficulty available for your character
The host and the clients have the same game speed
The host created a game without passwords
The host created a game with the "Max. Players" large enough ?
You don't have any mods from Steam
You don't have any mods manually installed
All players have verified their files
Your latency to the host is good
No player has OneDrive active with C:\Users\You\Documents included
Your antivirus allows TQ.exe to use internet
Windows' firewall allows TQ.exe to use internet
The port range is open in your router/modem
If all of the above are checked
1.. Your character doesn't have any items from expansions at least one player doesn't have
2. Your character doesn't have any mastery from expansions at least one player doesn't have